Monday, December 21, 2009

The Blind Side: A Review


Every Black Child Deserves A White Family...

It's a paradox in American society today. Our First Family is black, and by all accounts, Barack & Michelle Obama are a loving couple with a strong marriage. Their daughters, Sasha & Malia, are pleasant, happy, well-brought up girls who are fun-loving and well-mannered. In short, while not a perfect family, the Obamas are a strong and loving unit.

However, if we judge by films such as Precious and The Blind Side, we would believe that black families were unstable, unhappy, and even unhealthy. There, the parents are absent or abusive (or both) and the children psychologically damaged, sometimes almost beyond repair. Both groups are heavily involved in drugs and/or alcohol, with despair and hopelessness their only companions in the ghetto.

This is what we face in The Blind Side, based on the true story of Michael Ohre, currently with the Baltimore Ravens. When we first meet Michael, better known as Big Mike (Quinton Aaron), he's the saddest sad sack in history. He has cause: absent father, drug-addicted mother...from what I understand a typical African-American upbringing if I got all my information on African-American upbringing from Hollywood.

He finds himself in a Christian (read, all-white) high school, where he stands out from all his classmates not for his wit or charm or any other attributes, but because he is the complete opposite of them: poor, large, and black. One night, Sean Tuohy (Tim McGraw) notices him picking up uneaten popcorn bags after his daughter's volleyball game. On their way back to their home, Sean, his wife Leigh Anne (Sandra Bullock), and their children (Lilly Collins and Jae Head) see Big Mike walking, all alone, and sad. Did I mention he was walking in the rain? Leigh Anne decides there is only one thing to do: bring him to their home.

I digress to point out the Tuohy home looks like a miniature Versailles--in fact, I don't think my hometown of El Paso, TX has a house ANYWHERE that large. This is an important detail, since Michael (we find out he doesn't like being called Big Mike) sleeps on a sofa for months before the Tuohys offer him his own bedroom...or in his case, his very first bed.

The film is meant to be inspirational, meant to have us cheer Ohre on as he soon creates a new life with the only family he's ever truly known, meant to have us rejoice in his eventual success in college and then the NFL...and yet...and yet...I couldn't bring myself to do so. It isn't that I don't applaud what the Tuohys did or Mr. Ohre's triumph over his background. It's just that if it weren't "based on a true story" I wouldn't believe much if any of it. The main problem in The Blind Side is that for a biopic about Michael Ohre, the film really ISN'T about Michael Ohre. It's rather about the Tuohys.

We never see or hear from Michael himself about what HE thinks or what HE feels about everything going on around him. In short, he never really speaks for himself...sometimes doesn't even speak at all. Instead, it really is All About Tuohy, or more precisely All About Leigh Anne. As played by Bullock, Leigh Anne is a no-nonsense take charge woman who knows what's best and goes about fixing things with bluntness and no thought about how it might look. Sean, on the other hand, is generally quiet and supportive, almost passive, when it comes to anything his wife wants or thinks. My Goodness...I think they are doing their version of Sarah and Todd Palin! That would be fitting to how the Tuohys are shown: as good Christian Republicans.

The performances themselves were overall good. Bullock's Southern accent was not believable at the onset, but over time it either diminished or my ear just started adapting to it. Her performance shows that she is more than a talented comic performer but an actress who can bring a touch of comedy to a drama. McGraw is adding an impressive résumé to his film credits and is becoming an actual actor as opposed to a singer who says lines. I also give credit to McGraw's's the best one I've seen on him.

The REAL scene-stealer is Jae Head as their son S.J. He is delightfully precocious and brightens the screen every time he's on. Kathy Bates in a small role makes her Miss Sue a woman very eager to much so she "outs" herself to the a Democrat. I find it amusing when Sean tells Leigh Anne how strange it is that they had a black son before meeting a Democrat because in real life Tim McGraw is one of the FEW Democrats in country music, at least openly so.

The performances being good, it's unfortunate that the story itself did them all a disservice. People were too busy being inspired to notice little things, like the fact that as seen on film Ohre never managed to make ANY friends in his Christian school outside the Tuohys. What that says about Christians I leave up to the reader. In fact, we never see Michael make any kind of connection with ANYONE outside the Tuohys, as if all of them lived in a bubble no one can burst. It also made little to no notice of Ohre himself. It's no joke when Bullock says the rather clichéd line, "We didn't change him. He changed us", since the story was told through their eyes, not his. There were more clichés, like the snobbish "ladies who lunch" or their ghetto counterparts, the drug dealers in the projects.

Worse is just HOW DUMB Ohre comes off. His character is a simple, sweet soul, akin to Forrest Gump's black cousin. He's big, but he's soft. How else could we have a scene where he's failing to understand the rudiments of football (yes, you CAN use the word rudiment when talking about football) until Leigh Anne explains it in terms of family? Only then do we have the inner beast being unleashed and he becomes the tackle he will eventually become.

You also have a bizarre scene where Miss Sue is trying to scare Michael off from going to Tennessee (which the Tuohys all hate) in favor of Ole Miss (their alma mater). She tells him that the Tennessee stadium is filled with corpses and body parts and it looks like he believes her. In an eight-year-old, it makes him look innocent. In an eighteen year old, it makes him look stupid. Near the end, Michael has to write an essay that will give him the GPA necessary to get him into a university (shown by having college coaches pitch their programs to Michael and S.J.--pity I didn't recognize the coaches playing themselves). He is persuaded by Sean to pick Alfred, Lord Tennyson's poem The Charge of the Light Brigade by putting it in a football context.

I think the other choices offered would have been better: A Tale of Two Cities provides the unofficial Tuohy motto (It is a far, far better thing I do, than I have ever done...) while Shaw's Pygmalion IS the Michael Ohre Story: a poor, uneducated person taken into wealthy surroundings and transformed into My Fair Gentleman.

When I think of great fictional inspirational sports stories, I go to the classic Hoosiers or Rocky. If I want "based on a true story", I can revisit Chariots of Fire, Rudy, or read All Things Possible, the autobiography of NFL quarterback Kurt Warner. The Blind Side, while having good performances, lost out its chance to join the ranks of those by relying too much on standard storytelling, weak characters, and most damaging, telling the story from the wrong perspective.

The main difference is that in all the other films/books listed, we saw the story from the protagonist's viewpoint. They KNEW the odds against them (be it anti-Semitism, height, failure to get drafted) and yet they still pursued their dreams because THEY wanted to succeed. In The Blind Side, we don't get that, and if we had, it would have been better. It's not a bad film, just not a great one. This kind of story deserves better, and one needs to remember what happens when you pave the road with good intentions.


  1. I really enjoyed this movie. I see your point in the story being told by somebody else besides the protagonist, I feel that this being a true story, still shows what Michael Oher once was and now what he has become, but like I said I do agree that it should have come from more of his perspective than the Tuoghy's.

  2. Perfect! I finally watched it last night and was just looking up a pic of the real family and stumbeled across the blog post. I agree with everything you said.


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